Between publicly available information and what we share on social networks, there's a lot of information about you available online. A quick search of your name can turn up some pretty surprising things, including your home address or old social media posts you'd rather not see the light of day. Websites that specialize in people searches, designed to help marketers advertise to you or to help old friends track you down, are the worst offenders. These sites often provide detailed personal information with the click of a button.
So how can you reclaim your private data? It's tricky, because there are lots of sites that collect personal data. However, you can lock down your social profiles and request to be removed from major search sites — you'll have to make a request with each site individually — to make your personal data harder to find.
Keep social media to yourself
Because many search sites pull data from publicly available social media profiles, reducing the data in your profile will help. You can start by simply not filling out your full profile. If you want even less information available for search engines to find, make your social accounts private. Here's how.
If you're a fan of Facebook, you may not want to completely lock down your account. In this case, you should still go to your privacy settings and select "no" next to "Do you want search engines outside of Facebook to link to your profile?" This will keep your Facebook posts off search engines for more privacy.
Get rid of unused accounts
Many people search sites pick up information from your publicly available profiles. One way to get that data away from search engines is to simply delete the account. This isn't a practical option for every site, but there's a good chance you have some online accounts that you just don't use anymore. Get that data offline so no one can find it by deleting the account entirely.
Unfortunately, every site has its own set of hoops to jump through to delete an account. Head over to AccountKiller to find a comprehensive list of account deletion instructions plus tips on what deleting your account may leave behind. Search for the accounts you want to delete, and follow the instructions to get rid of them.
Remove yourself from people searches directly
The next step is getting your data off the major people search sites themselves. You can remove your listing from most of them, but it takes time and some legwork. Each site has its own requirements, most including verification of your identity via a copy of your ID (be sure to black out your ID number before you send it in). Once you’ve submitted your request, removing your information takes anywhere from days to weeks, depending on the site.
If your name or address changes, a previous request to delete your information may not work any more. Check back with these sites if your information changes to make sure your data stays offline.
See the requirements for major search sites below.
Acxiom
Fill out Acxiom's opt-out form, which requires your name, phone numbers, email addresses and mailing addresses to match you to your profile.
BeenVerified
Search for your listing on BeenVerified's opt-out page and provide your email address. You'll receive an email with a link you need to click to confirm your opt-out.
DOBSearch.com
Submit a request for removal through the site's contact form. You will be required to provide proof of identity by providing a government-issued ID.
Intelius
Fill out its opt-out form, which requires a copy of your driver's license, passport, military ID card, state ID card, or employee ID card from a state agency. (You may also mail or fax your form.) If you aren't comfortable providing one of these pieces of identification, you can have a notary public verify your identity with this form.
LookUp
Search for your listing on LookUp, then go to the site's opt-out page and provide your name, email address, home address, and the URL of your listing.
MyLife
Search for your listing on MyLife and click the "Yes, this is me!" option to claim it. You will have to verify your identity, which requires providing a credit card number — it's an odd way to go about it, but it's how the service verifies identity. If you'd rather not do this online, you can call Customer Care at 1-888-704-1900.
Once your profile is claimed, you'll be able to modify it or make it private.
PeekYou
Search for your listing on PeekYou and note the number at the end of the URL. Then go to PeekYou's opt-out page and enter your name, email address and the number from your profile URL to be removed.
PeopleLookup
Fax (425-974-6194) or mail (P.O. Box 4145, Bellevue, WA 98009-4145) a removal request to PeopleLookup. Include a copy of a government-issued ID and your name, date of birth and address. See full details about how the site handles blocking requests.
PeopleSmart
Search for your listing on PeopleSmart's opt-out page. Then enter your email address; you'll receive an email with a link you need to click to confirm your opt-out.
Peoplefinders and Public Records Now
Search for your listing on Peoplefinders' opt-out page. All you have to do is click a few confirmation links (and ignore any offers trying to sell you information) to get rid of your information.
While the site name specifies Peoplefinders, this process also opts you out of Public Records Now, which is owned by the same company.
PrivateEye
Mail in the site's opt-out form, which asks for your name, data of birth, aliases and addresses going back 20 years.
Radaris
Search for your listing on Radaris, then click the arrow on the left side of the page and select Control Information from the drop-down, then click to claim the profile. You'll need to create an account (all you need to provide is your email address), and you'll get an email with a link to verify your account. Now you can edit or delete your information.
Spokeo
Search for your listing on Spokeo, then copy and paste the listing URL into Spokeo's opt-out form. You'll receive an email with a link you need to click to confirm your opt-out.
If you have multiple listings, repeat the process for each one.
USA People Search
Search for your listing on USA People Search's opt-out page. Click a few confirmation links to get rid of your info.
US Search
Search for your listing on US Search's opt-out page, then print the profile page you find. You have to fax or mail it to US Search along with a copy of a state-issued ID card or driver's license.
Whitepages
Search for your profile on Whitepages, then go to the Remove from Directory page, which sends you to a login screen. Create an account (all you need to provide is your email address), and you'll get an email with a link to verify your account, which sends you back to the opt-out screen. Enter the URL for your profile, and you'll be required to verify your identity over the phone.
ZabaSearch
Fax (425-974-6194) or mail a removal request to ZabaSearch. You'll have to include a copy of a government-issued ID. See full details about how the site handles blocking requests.
Hire someone to do the work for you
If all this sounds like way too much time and effort, you can pay to have someone else do the work for you — or at least some of it. DeleteMe puts in requests to remove your information with 14 major databases, which effectively removes you from a lot of aggregator searches like Pipl. After making its deletion requests, it keeps monitoring those sites in case anything else pops up. While it's still your responsibility to be sure you aren't putting too much information on social media where anyone can easily find it, DeleteMe will keep your info off of the major search sites and send you a privacy report every three months to keep you informed.
DeleteMe services start at $129 per year for one person. That's not a cheap thrill, but if you weigh the time it would take to individually remove yourself from each of these sites, you may find it worthwhile.
Not sure if you can trust DeleteMe? The service is run by Abine, a BBB-accredited business with an A+ rating and a strong privacy policy.
Can anyone find me online now?
Even after going through all of these steps, it's possible that you won't completely vanish from the internet. If you're active online, especially if you maintain social media accounts, having some kind of online footprint is hard to avoid. Many online searches simply aggregate publicly available information, and there's always the possibility that new data will appear.
However, taking the time to remove your information from the main services makes you a lot harder for marketers (and anyone else) to track down.
Updated on 1/30/2017 with new recommendations and information
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opting out
From Linda Nerstad on January 13, 2015 :: 3:30 pm
When I did this on the Spokeo site, it looks like I have to join for 3 or 6 months to be able to get into the site to capture the URL. Please advise.
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No need to join
From Josh Kirschner on January 13, 2015 :: 3:51 pm
There’s no need to have a Spokeo subscription to find yourself or opt out. Search for yourself on Spokeo (for free). When you find yourself, copy the url at the top of the page (will look something like “http://www.spokeo.com/search?q=yourfirstname+yourlastname#yourcity,+yourstate:1078383937”).
Then go to the Spokeo opt-out page (http://www.spokeo.com/opt_out/new) and paste that url into the Profile URL field, enter your email address, and click “Remove this Listing”.
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re: opting out
From chasmyn on January 13, 2015 :: 3:53 pm
You don’t. You just copy the url of where your name shows up in the search, on the page before that.
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No URL
From Linda Nerstad on January 13, 2015 :: 5:15 pm
When I type in my name it takes me to my location on a map. I click on that and it shows that it has info about my address; phone,etc and a link to get the info. That leads to a cost for 3 months or 6 months. The link is “Spokeo - Linda Nerstad” with no URL. Have you tried it?
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