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The Complete Guide to Facebook Privacy Settings

by on April 27, 2020
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The Complete Guide to Facebook Privacy Settings

Privacy concerns and privacy controls on Facebook are ever changing. When you post a picture of your kids at a family gathering, which one of your Facebook friends can share it? What private information are those Facebook game apps collecting on you for "third-party uses"? How do you make sure that live video stream is seen only by people you choose? Every action you take on Facebook has privacy and sharing implications that need to be considered before you upload that next selfie.

Fortunately, thanks to vocal demands for transparency from both Facebook users and government regulators around the world, Facebook has been making the process of managing your privacy easier. Below is our step-by-step guide to taking full control of your Facebook privacy settings.

Facebook Privacy

The basic privacy options

If you’re not ready to dive into Facebook’s substantial settings menu, there’s a more user-friendly guide through the more vital privacy settings. Click on the question mark symbol in the top right of any Facebook page when you’re logged in, and select Privacy Checkup, an easy-to-follow walkthrough of your current settings as they pertain to Posts, Apps and Websites, and Profile.

(Alternately, for an even quicker speed-tuneup, you can adjust who can see your posts, send you friend requests, or block users by hitting the question mark symbol and selecting Privacy shortcuts.)


Starting with Posts, you can check your default sharing setting. (You'll find this under Settings > Privacy > Your Activity > Who can see future posts, if you're not going through the Privacy Checkup.) We recommend the Friends setting over the Public one. When set to Public all your posts can be seen by anyone on or off Facebook. Unless you're a celebrity or running a page that is used to generate interest in a business you run, you will likely want to keep your activity restricted to those you have Friended.

The Friend setting has a few tweaks you should be aware of as well. By clicking on the triple dots, the sharing setting button, then the More Options button, you will see the Custom option. Click on that, and you will see that you can include all your Friends while excluding the names of certain Facebook friends you don't want to see your updates. It is also important to note that the Friends of anyone tagged in your post or photos will be able to see that post unless you uncheck the option in this window.

Facebook Privacy: Check Your Status Update Settings

If you have joined any Facebook groups or made lists of Facebook friends, you can restrict the posts that way or hide your posts from those groups and lists as well. Want just your college friends to see your late night party pictures? Want to make sure your work friends don't see your selfie at the beach when you called in sick? These restrictions could come in handy both on a per post basis or as an overall option. You can even go back to change settings of previous posts by clicking on the selecting Limit Past Posts.

Finally, remember that you can change the sharing settings of any individual Facebook update by clicking on the triple dots, then sharing button to the left of the Post button.

Limit audience for a single post on Facebook


Here you can see the privacy setting on your phone number, email addresses, birthday, hometown, relationship status, and other personal details about your life. Under emails, it will show all email addresses associated with your account and who can view them. If you find an email address that you don't want associated with your account, you can delete it. After completing the Privacy Checkup, go to Settings > General > General Account Settings in Settings, you can add and remove email addresses and change your primary email address. 

For your birthday, the sharing settings are split between the day/month and the year. That way your Friends can wish you happy birthday on Facebook on your special day without necessarily knowing your exact age.

For hometown, this setting only affects what your Friends can see. Advertisers and others may still access this information, especially if you are using the Facebook app, which tracks your location automatically.

Finally, if you have set a relationship with another Facebook user, it will be shared unless you set it otherwise.

It's important to note that this is only a partial list of the information you're sharing. To see the full list, click the My About Page button, which will take you to your profile page. On there, you can review the various sections—Work and Education, Places You've Lived, Contact and Basic Info, Family and Relationships, Details About You, and Life Events —and make changes hovering over each and clicking the link that appears.

Apps and Websites

Remember the Facebook game you played too much last year? Each app on the site you agreed to install has permission to post to your Friends list unless you told it otherwise at the time you installed it. Can't remember? This part of the tool shows you each app attached to your account and what sharing permissions it has. These settings also control who can see that you have the app installed.

If you don't use the app anymore, just delete it by clicking on the box next to it and select Remove. Delete all apps that you're not actively using and review the sharing permissions of the remaining ones.

Privacy options

Privacy Settings and Tools

To get to the advanced privacy settings, click the drop down arrow in the top right on any Facebook page, click Settings, and then Privacy in the left navigation column. 

Here you can exert more control of what is being shared with whom, which is never a bad idea. You've likely gone through this at least once in the past, but it's a great idea to review your settings at least once a year.

Who can see my stuff? (Find out in Your Activity)

Who can see your future posts?

Select Edit and you can take complete control over who sees your posts. Use the predefined categories, like Friends and Friends of friends, or create a custom group. 

Review all your posts and things you're tagged in

Ever been tagged in an embarrassing photo uploaded by that distant college classmate? You can use the Activity Log page and select the Posts You're Tagged In (in the left column) and the Photos > Photos of You (also in the left column) to check out what you've been tagged in. You can then remove the tag (click the drop-down arrow on the left of the post or photo and then click on the the Remove Tag button at the top of the page) or simply click Hide so they don’t appear on your Timeline.

Limit the audience for posts you've shared with friends of friends or Public?

If you select Limit Past Posts, all your previous posts from Public or Friends of friends will revert to just Friends. But if you've tagged a Friend in one of your posts, their Friends can see that since that is the default setting when tagging someone. 

If you originally shared a post with a custom audience, like Close Friends, this tool will not change the audience for those posts.

How people find and contact you

Who can send you friend requests?

The default is Everybody, and the only other choice is Friends of Friends.

Who can see your friends list?

The default is Public, but you can customize who can see the list, including setting it to Only me.

Who can look me up?

Who can you look you up with the email address you provided?

If someone has your email address they can look you up, but only if your email is Public.  You can restrict it to Friends of Friends or just Friends if you don't want to be bothered.

Who can look you up using the phone number you provided?

Same as the email address.

Do you want other search engines to link to your timeline?

Your first impulse may be to turn this off, but Facebook only allows information you've marked as Public to be shown to other search engines. They see it as a way for friends not on Facebook to find you. Whatever you choose, anyone will still be able to find your profile simply by looking up your name in Facebook search.

Access Your Information to review all of your Facebook actions

Here's where you can keep tabs on everything you've ever done on Facebook. Select Access Your Information and you'll see a large list of types of activities for easy access to see what you've done. For instance, read through all of your Comments on your posts, other people's posts, or in Groups you belong to. Scroll through Likes and Reactions to see posts, comments and Pages you've liked or reactive to and edit those actions. Review Photos and Videos you've shared or been tagged in and report the photo or remove the tag. See all of you Saved Items and read them, mark them as read or delete them. See a list of Event invitations you've received and responded to, and edit your response. 

In the section entitled Activity Log, you can scroll through all of your activities chronologically to view, edit and delete them. You can also see what the audience is for your activity, for instance is that comment seen by the person's friends, friends of friends or public. 

Manage how your Off-Facebook Activity is tracked

Manage how your Off-Facebook Activity is tracked

Facebook receives data from third parties when we visit sites or use apps that use Facebook's tools for tracking activities, including making purchases and logging in. Tracking your activity across the internet gives Facebook a fairly clear picture of your day-to-day activities, which it uses to serve ads and recommend content it thinks you’ll like. To manage your Off-Facebook Activity, select Off-Facebook Activity and then Manage Your Off-Facebook Activity. Once you've input your Facebook password, you can see a list of every site and app that’s shared information with Facebook. Click on any site and select “turn off future activity” to stop it from adding data to your Facebook profile.

Timeline and tagging Options

Facebook Timeline and Tagging Settings

In Timeline and Tagging you can control exactly who sees what on your timeline, who can post to your timeline, and who can tag you in photos and posts.

To customize your timeline settings, click on the down arrow in the far upper right corner to reveal a drop-down menu, and select Settings.

What people can see and add to my timeline

Who can post on your timeline?

It's set by default to Friends, and the only other option is to allow only yourself to post on your timeline.

Who can see what others post on your timeline?

You have flexibility with options ranging from Everyone to Friends of Friends to custom lists. Using this in conjunction with manually approving what photos and updates you've been tagged in goes a long way to keep prying eyes away from more sensitive Facebook updates.

Allow others to share your posts to their stories? 

Facebook defaults to allowing anyone to share your Public posts to their story. And if you tag someone in a post, they can share it to their story. In both cases, your full name and a link to your post will be visible for 24 hours. If you don't want others to be able to share your posts, Disable this option.

Hide comments containing certain words from your timeline

If you're concerned about certain words appearing in comments on your timeline, you can establish a word, phrase and emoji blacklist. Comments that contain banned content will only be able to be seen by the poster and their friends.

Who can see posts that you're tagged in?

Who can see posts you're tagged in on your timeline?

You have a great deal of flexibility here, with options ranging from Everyone to Friends of Friends to custom lists. Using this and the below setting in conjunction with manually approving what photos and updates you've been tagged in goes a long way to keep prying eyes away from more sensitive Facebook updates. 

When you're tagged in a post, who do you want to add to the audience if they aren't already in it?

This one sounds more complicated than it is. Often a Facebook friend of yours will make a post and tag you in it. The option here allows all of your Facebook friends to see an update or photo you've been tagged in by someone they aren't friends with themselves (the Friends of Friends function). You can choose to remain tagged but have none of your other Facebook friends see that update, limit who sees that update to certain groups of friends, or you can outright block certain Facebook friends altogether by using the Custom option.

Manually review other people's posts you're tagged in and tags before they appear on Facebook

Review posts you're tagged in before the post appears in your timeline

If you are concerned about getting tagged in a photo that you don't want all your friends on Facebook to see, this is the setting for you. Once enabled, you'll have to manually approve any photo or posts you are tagged in before they appear on your timeline. Note that this only affects your timeline; those updates will still appear in searches, the news feed, and other places unless you un-tag yourself. (Alternately, you can extricate yourself from incriminating posts by clicking on the offending post, then the arrow in the top right to Remove Tag.)

Review tags people add to your own posts before the tags appear on Facebook?

This applies only to photo tagging by your Facebook friends. You'll always be notified if someone who's not your friend tags you in a photo.

What do my posts look like to other people?

Review what other people see on your Timeline. 

Click View As for the perfect way to check that your mother or boss won't see what you don't want them to.

Manage blocking

Facebook Manage Blocking

If you want to take steps to keep people away from your profile, the "Blocking" is the section for you.

Restricted list

If you don't want to un-friend somebody but also don't want them to see all of your information, you can add them to the Restricted List. This means they can see your public information, but they have no way of knowing you’ve limited their view (unless they happen to see someone browsing your profile who isn't restricted).

Block users

You can also just straight up block somebody. This means this person cannot be your friend. This is an excellent setting if you have stalkers or other people consistently bothering you. Note that this does not stop them from interacting with you in apps, games, or groups you're both a part of.

Block messages

Block messages If you’re receiving unwelcome messages and video calls from someone, you can put a stop to that here – and it carries over to the Messenger app too. However, the pest in question will still be able to post to your Timeline unless you block them as a user (above). 

Block app invites

In addition to blocking and restricting people from your profile, you can also block app invitations on a user-by-user basis. So if your Aunt Jackie keeps bombarding you with annoying apps, you know what to do.

Block event invites

Tired of your nephew inviting you to his New York City raves every weekend? Typing the name of the Facebook user into this section will stop you from seeing any future event invites from that person.

Block apps

Some apps and Facebook games are great fun at first, but after a while, you want to drop them. You can remove the app or game (see the Apps you use section, below) or block the app, which means it can no longer contact you or get non-public information about you through Facebook. If you are getting emails from the app, you will have to use the unsubscribe link at the bottom of the email.

Block pages

Is that discount fashion site you liked bombarding you with updates from its Facebook Page? Block ‘em here, where you’ll also automatically unlike and unfollow the Page. You can also block other Pages (i.e., public pages for businesses and celebrities) from commenting on or liking your posts.

Turn off face recognition

Facebook uses face-matching technology to suggest who you should tag in photos, prevent strangers from using a photo of you as their profile photo, and let you know when you might appear ina photo or video but haven't been tagged (if you're in the audience). It will only suggest people that are on the user's friends list. If you don't want to show up as an option when your friends are tagging photos, set this to No.

Public post filters and tools

Facebook follower privacy settings

If you’re lucky enough to have people hanging off your every post, you can decide to widen your net of followers here. Friends follow by default, but you can change it to the only other option - let Everyone view your public posts (you can set public-ness each time you post). 

Check on apps and websites you've logged into with Facebook

Facebook Apps and Websites

Here you can find out which apps and sites you've logged into with Facebook. The important tab is the Active tab, which means these apps and sites currently have access to whatever data you opted into providing. Click on the box beside any app or site that you are no longer interested in accessing and then click Remove. For the rest, click on View and edit for each one to check on what information you're sharing and update your sharing preferences.

If you're not interested in using Facebook to connect with outside apps and sites, you can scroll down to Preferences and click on the Edit button in the Apps, Websites and Games box to turn off access. 

Check on Instant Games you've logged into with Facebook

Like with Apps and Websites, you can see which Instant Games you're logged into with Facebook and check on what you've agreed to share.

Find out what is determining the ads you see

Facebook ad preferences

Your Interests

Facebook compiles a list of your interests based on your activity on Facebook and your engagement with Pages hosted by businesses and ads. These interests will determine what ads you see in your Newsfeed. You can delete any interests by selecting the interest and choosing Remove.

Advertisers and Businesses

Here you will find a list of advertisers who have uploaded a list with your information, who has advertised to you, whose website or app you've used, whose ads you've clicked or blocked and more. 

For businesses who uploaded a list with your information and advertised to it, you can choose to Hide all ads from this advertiser. Facebook matched your profile with the advertiser's needs and showed the ad without revealing your identity.

For businesses who have uploaded and shared a list with your information, you can see how those businesses data resulted in ads shown. While you can see the businesses the uploaded the information, you can only choose to opt out of ads from advertisers who used the uploaded data.

Advertisers using lists with your information

For businesses whom you've visited, whose website or app you may have used, and whose ads you've clicked, you can choose to hide all ads from that advertiser.

Your information

Under About you, you can turn off whether details such as your relationship status, education level or job title can be used to target advertising to you. However, this does not stop Facebook from using this information to categorize your profile for advertisers, or from ads being shown.

Under Your categories, you can find out what descriptors that your activity on Facebook and outside has revealed about you. Most of my fields were related to factual items such as “WiFi Users”, though there were a couple of interesting deductions too, such as “Potential mobile network or device change”.

You can delete them all to start fresh, or if you want no interest-based ads on or off Facebook. Just click the X on the right of each item.  

Ad Settings

Ads based on data from partners

Nearly anywhere you click online, and in some cases where you shop in stores, is used to build a profile of you that Facebook can then sell to advertisers so they can show targeted ads to you while you’re browsing Facebook. If that makes you uncomfortable, you can choose Not allowed here. You’ll still see advertising on Facebook, it just won’t be based on all those running shoes you were looking up.

Ads based on your activity on Facebook Company Products that you see elsewhere

Since Facebook operates its own ad network of sites, it can also target you with ads even when you’re not browsing Facebook – essentially, at any site that uses its ad technology. But the permission is trickily worded – it asks if it can use your Facebook ad preferences, so choose Yes and make sure you review the section below entitled Ad Preferences. Even if you’ve always turned off targeted ads based on browsing (above), Facebook can use information in your profile to create ad preferences.

Regardless, you’ll most likely still receive targeted ads outside Facebook that are based on your age, gender, and location, as well as browsing activity on sites that are part of other ad networks. If you want to stop seeing-based ads in general, you can opt out at the Digital Advertising Alliance - though it notes that the opt-out can only apply to participating companies.

Ads that include your social actions

If you like, comment on or share a Page (say, owned by a business or brand), Facebook can broadcast it as an advertisement to all your friends.

Facebook social ad example

This also applies to apps used (for example, Spotify) and events joined (say, if you hit attend for a café’s Veggie Fridays). You can flip the audience for all this between Only my friends and No One.

Hide ad topics

If you really don't want to see ads for specific types of products or categories of products, you can choose to hide them for six months, a year or permanently. If the topic you object to isn't one that Facebook had made available for censorship, you can click on Suggest Other Topics to let them know.

And that's Facebook Privacy in a (gigantic) nutshell

That covers your privacy setting options on Facebook. If you want to dig in even further, Facebook has a page explaining the basics of Facebook privacy tools as well as Facebook's latest data policies.

Updated on 4/27/2020

[shocked woman with laptop via Shutterstock, all other images via Facebook]

Natasha Stokes has been a technology writer for more than 7 years covering consumer tech issues, digital privacy and cybersecurity. As the features editor at TOP10VPN, she covered online censorship and surveillance that impact the lives of people around the world. Her work has also appeared on BBC Worldwide, CNN, Time and Travel+Leisure.

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From Wren on August 20, 2015 :: 4:16 pm

I was commenting on a publicly posted news article, and engaged in a dialogue with another user. He was consistently using @myname to created a link back to me in his comments, but I am unable to do this with his name. Facebook recognizes it when I type @hisname, but when I hit post, no link is generated. I’ve poured over facebook settings to find where I can turn “mentions” off for myself (like this stranger apparently has done), but I can’t find anything. I have come across a third-party app called Mention Blocker which is a chrome extension. Is it possible he is using this? or is this just a setting in FB somewhere that I can’t find?

PS - I had a friend on a different computer in another state try the same thing on the same thread, and he also couldn’t successfully make a mention of this person in a comment.


remove others messages

From soha on August 21, 2015 :: 4:51 am

I want to stop receiving messages other than my friends so I want to completely remove the “message” button from my profile. I tried downgrading my fb but the privacy settings still the same :(


Other peoples comments and likes

From Annette on August 26, 2015 :: 12:34 pm

Hi, lately the amount of comments and likes of other people on posts that are none of my business start to outnumber the actual posts of friends. There used to be a time when you could uncheck ‘comments and like’ in the settings of friends, but I can’t find this anymore… Do you have any clues on how to deal with this? Thanks!


How do I stop the

From Regina Black on August 28, 2015 :: 4:42 am

How do I stop the “privacy checkup” notification from popping up? I’ve tried changing all my privacy settings and it JUUUUUUSSSST keeps telling me “Hi Regina! We care about your privacy and want to make sure you’re sharing with the right people.” It comes back every time I refresh my page. It comes back every time I go into a group. It comes back every time I go into my messages. It’s driving me crazy and I just want it to stop.


Have you actually completed the checkup?

From Josh Kirschner on August 28, 2015 :: 2:09 pm

Have you gone through the privacy checkup walkthrough to the point where it says “finished”? Until you have, it’s going to keep popping up.


Message settings

From Jonathan Dolan on October 01, 2015 :: 12:20 pm

I am an admin on many business pages. I recently began having an issue when I try to send a message to someone and pay the $1 for it to go to their inbox. I have been getting an error message saying that my $1 has been refunded and the message has been sent to their “other” folder.

Is there a new message privacy setting that is causing this? Is Facebook possibly testing and changing their message privacy setting relating to businesses sending messages?

Thanks in advance


Comment privacy

From Stefan Baer on August 29, 2015 :: 3:03 am

Thank you for taking the time to answer questions.

Is there a privacy setting that I can modify that will stop Facebook from showing comments that I make to various groups and discussions to everyone on my Facebook? Right now, when I comment on specific things, it will show up to others in their news feeds . I really dislike this.


Friends see posts I have made on other pages

From Karen West on February 21, 2017 :: 11:12 am

My friends see all posts I make on other people’s or group’s pages. However, I never see what friends post to their friends or other pages.

How can I stop all my posts on other pages from appearing on their page?



From DAM on June 27, 2017 :: 12:03 pm

When you’re friends with someone you’re usually following them too.Unfollow them that way their things won’t appear on your feed


birthday wishes tags

From Alex Boe on August 29, 2015 :: 11:10 am

why are my Bday wishes that I am tagged in only show on my timeline & not on news feed? I have checked all my settings & all are ok. thanks


Privacy editing

From KC on August 31, 2015 :: 12:22 am

If a friend comments on my status, but then I decide to restrict their view in my privacy options and change it by adding them to the “Dont share with” list on that very status - then what happens when I reply to their previous comment? Will they get a notification??


I would like to ask

From Boris Velikson on September 01, 2015 :: 8:46 am

I would like to ask the same question Annette asked on 8/26 and to which no answer seems to have been given: how to stop seeing all the postings a friend liked or commented? I have no interest in these.

And I would like to ask another question. Earlier there existed, I was told, an option not to see a friend’s postings. This option does not seem to exist anymore. I have friends I would not like to unfriend (so that they can comment on my postings) but whose volume of production is such that I’d like to stop automatically seeing their statuses. If you removed that option, please put it back. If you hid it, tell me please how to find it.



From Char on September 03, 2015 :: 9:25 am

Boris:  In the top right corner of your friend’s post, you will see a “V”.  Click on that and you will see “Hide Post”, “Unfollow BLAH” and the almost irrelevant “Hide all from X”.  You can either hide the post, which would tell facebook that you want to see less from this person, or Unfollow which means you won’t see any posts from this person.  In both situations they will still see what you post, unlike unfriending.  They won’t know that you’ve hidden the post or that you’ve unfollowed them.



From Annette on September 07, 2015 :: 10:50 am

...Char for your tip, I will try the ‘Less posts’ option and hope it works!


Is business page always public even if personal page is set "friends only"?

From Gabriela on September 01, 2015 :: 5:04 pm

I have private profile set for “friends” only. I have recently created a business page but I do not see privacy option specifically for business page. Does it mean that business page will have the same setting as my personal profile “friends” only or does it mean that personal profile is whatever I set it to be and independently to it business page is always public?I just don’t want people who see my business page had any insight to my private profile. Please help!


Friends know when I've logged on using mobile

From Char on September 03, 2015 :: 7:29 am

It never fails- I check Facebook messages when I’m out and about, and my friends see that I’m online using my mobile phone and they send me about 20- messages in less than 2 minutes, expecting me to respond immediately.  I’ve turned off chat, so I don’t know how they’re seeing that I’m on Facebook.  Aside from deleting these overly self-centered friends (tongue in cheek), how do I stop them from seeing that I’m using my mobile?  I’ve turned off chat so I don’t know why it’s showing up at all.


Facebook messenger video calling

From Anti on September 05, 2015 :: 12:35 pm

I noticed that people I don’t have friends can send me a request for video call. How can I remove the icon of the camera that exists on the right part of the cover photo to avoid that. Just in case you need to know, I have not the facebook video call plugin.

Plus, was always sending messages possible for everyone? I think that in the past you could chose those who could send you.

Thank you.


Someone is keeping bothering me

From S on September 06, 2015 :: 10:44 am

Someone is keeping bothering me by sending messages even when I block that person..he makes a new profile and send me in the “others” folder again and again >.<
So how can I stop receiving messages from unknown/unfriend and prevent that others folder!!!


privacy on friends wall

From Shari on September 07, 2015 :: 9:49 pm


Any way to be private to my friends friends list?  I’m active on a pal’s wall but do not want her friends to see posts, tags, etc.



Tagging photos, photo descriptions, likes and comments

From Wendi on September 09, 2015 :: 9:08 am

Hello- When I now post a photo as my status update, tag someone and add a description, I have many strange things happening.  1.  On my page the photo and description appear as my update, but when I go to the friends page that I tagged, the photo is there, but no description. 2.  When one see’s my photo/description as a part of their feed, they can like or comment without clicking on the photo (which is typical).  However, when you then click on the actual photo, they can like or comment there, but it acts as a completely separate like or comment.  3.  So, these separate comments are now the comments that appear under the photo on my tagged friends pages, but not under my page.  They are only under the photo when you click on it.

I’m not sure if you are following me, but I can always show it to you via my FB page as well.  This is driving me crazy and has to be one of my settings.  I just cannot figure it out.

Help please!


Comments on News pages?

From Lisa on September 09, 2015 :: 10:55 am

This piece is very helpful. I’m trying to figure out how to keep my job from being posted next to my name when I comment on my local newspaper or, say, The Huffington Post. I could ostensibly set up a fake account for HP, but my local paper is tied to my subscription. Thank you!


How to impose restrictions for my personal account viewing by people who view my page

From Shikha on September 10, 2015 :: 12:17 am

I have created a page through my personal fb account n i want to display that page to some of the fb groups of which i m a member on my personal account.How can i restrict those group people to view my personal account pics n posts but they should be able to view pics posted on my page.


Add a Friend on facebook

From Nana Trujillo on September 14, 2015 :: 11:54 am

I am not able to add two friends on facebook eventhough we have 15 friends in common with one and 5 eith the other. In both the add friend button does not show up, only the one to send a message. About a month ago the add a friend button was available on both of them but last week was not available anymore. I noticed last week my facebook was updated. It is only happening with this two friends I want to add, but not to others. Why this could happened?


Stopping constant E Mails from Face book

From H Rea on September 23, 2015 :: 7:08 am

How do I stop Face Book sending me requests from friends requesting confirm or delete? I don’t want to delete the names as it seems unfriendly. I just don’t want Face Book to send me 3 e mails daily (cluttering up my in box) titled ‘have more friends on Facebook than you think’! Thanks


I liked or comment anyone post, anyone will not able to see that without me?

From Jayesh Jaiswal JJ on September 28, 2015 :: 6:31 am

Useful suggestions but I liked or comment anyone post, anyone will not able to see that without me? Plz help me


Family Relationships

From Linda Gourley on October 06, 2015 :: 1:58 pm

Love the info you provided. So much better than what Facebook provides. But I have a question that requires your opinion. Should you refrain from listing family relationships? What’s the downside of that, realistically?


viewing profile and postings

From Dalene Berger on October 10, 2015 :: 5:28 pm

how come someone that is not my friend cannot see my profile or postings?  I have not blocked them or had them on a restricted list


Limiting stranger comments on my public posts

From Kia Eccentric McCool on October 14, 2015 :: 8:46 pm

Hello. How can I stop people who are not friends from commenting on my public posts? I know it can be done because I’ve viewed content on peoples’ pages but couln’t comment unless I was their friend.  I just cant figure out how they do it and it sucks. Please help?

Thank you so much for your time.


pages post

From Joe on October 16, 2015 :: 11:47 am

If I set the privacy settings on my profile of who can see my posts, but I post something to a public fanpage like a comment, that will still appear on that fanpage correct?



From Josh Kirschner on October 16, 2015 :: 11:54 am

Privacy on Fan Pages is controlled by the page owner, not by your personal settings. Generally speaking, anything you post on a fan page will be public.


Can't find a deleted friend to refriend again

From Yolanda Mendez on October 16, 2015 :: 2:57 pm

Hello Josh:

Wanted to ask for your help, I’ve been searching all over the internet for several days how to add (once more) a friend that I deleted 6 days ago. He was on my list of acquaintances and we got into a stupid discussion where I ended up deleting him from my list of friends, but it was s joke. I want to add him back and can’t find him anywhere not on search, mutual friends (we have more than 100) or anywhere, it seems as if he doesn’t exists. He tried to add me too and has the same problem. We haven’t blocked each other so don’t know what is going on. I even open others people pictures where he is tagged and messages we had, and his name is in black and I can’t enter his profile to add him back.
I’ve really tried everything, even a mutual friend suggested him as a contact and I didn’t receive her suggestion…weird.
Do you know if Facebook has a “time out” friendship period? For example a week or so and I’ll be able to see and add my friend soon.

Please help me.

Many thanks!


Facebook privacy setting "FRIENDS" does not work!

From Mike J Baron on October 19, 2015 :: 5:34 pm

I have FRIENDS selected for my privacy setting.

Using a stranger’s computer (someone who is NOT my fb friend) I verified that ANYONE can see my fb posts!

So your instructions only repeat what facebook claims, and it is not true!

Facebook instructions are a lie! Anyone can see all your business. I recommend you delete your instructions and warn your readers that fb’s privacy instructions DO NOT WORK.


Check you setting for the individual posts

From Josh Kirschner on October 19, 2015 :: 9:30 pm

What is the privacy setting for the individual posts you made? Is it Friends or Public? Are these posts you made in your timeline or are they comments on other peoples’ posts or on fan pages?

If you post a link to where you claim your private posts are public, I’ll take a look. Facebook’s privacy settings do work, so I think the issue is with your settings or posting location.


friends list

From Tom on October 19, 2015 :: 7:06 pm

Is it possible to hide certain friends from some people? Example; the friends list says 103 friends but I can only see 76.


Liking someones comment

From Kimm on October 20, 2015 :: 4:37 am

Sometimes I hit like on a political page to support the person who posted the comment but I really would prefer it isn’t publicized for my friends to see. How do I prevent this.


You can't

From Josh Kirschner on October 20, 2015 :: 8:34 am

Privacy on other people’s pages/posts is controlled by that person. So if you’re taking actions on a public page or post, your actions will be public. Plan accordingly.


Stopping non friends from commenting on my posts

From Linda on October 23, 2015 :: 12:43 pm

  When I post something on FB my fiends will comment but in many cases there are comments from people I dint know. I have gone to my privacy settings but dint see anything that I can select to change this. I have ‘friends only’ setting. What can I do to have friend comments only. Thank you.


limit my tracking

From Glenn Kessler on October 23, 2015 :: 12:53 pm

I have a family member that is friends with me and is following me.  He can see every comment I leave on other people’s FB posts even when he is not tagged or friends with that person.  If he can track every comment I make on facebook, then others can as well.  I only want my friends to see what I post on my own timeline and what I post on their timeline. I don’t want friends to see comments that I post on other peoples pages.  How can I adjust my settings to stop this?


likes and comments on my public posts

From Barry on October 25, 2015 :: 8:36 pm

Hi there,
How can I allow others (fiends of friends, everyone) to be able to like and/or comment on the public posts on my timeline? Right now people who are not my friends can only share my public posts and also I don’t allow people to follow me.


Public posts

From Glo on October 31, 2015 :: 7:33 am

Can I block one specific person from seeing posts I set to ‘public’?



Too many comments and likes

From Linda van den Berg on November 02, 2015 :: 4:06 am

I’ve seen the same question twice and still no response. I would also like to know what to do if friends write something on some one else’s wall (maybe only their friends)shows on my news feed. It is not only one specific person, so I can’t just hide posts of that person. I don’t want to see what friends write to each other. I’m only interested in things they write to ME.


Not much you can do

From Josh Kirschner on November 26, 2015 :: 12:23 am

Facebook controls what appears in your News Feed and how it is prioritized. There is little you can do to change that other than blocking or prioritizing specific people.


"Liking" Privacy setting

From Kate Sells-Greer on November 25, 2015 :: 12:36 am

I entered into a contest and I made my post public (I Have to get as many likes as I can) Yet only my friends can like my post.

If we are not friends you only have the option to share it. Any suggestions? 

Thank you,



From fay on November 29, 2015 :: 4:35 pm

Please could someone tell me why a friend can only see things I have tagged them in and not any other of my posts?



From M Ramya on December 09, 2015 :: 10:23 am

The post is public. But I am not able to see the no. of shares of the post by Friends of friends



From Linda on December 10, 2015 :: 8:29 pm

Hello! I have a quick question.

First of all thank you for the guide.

I would like to hide my friends as well. I dont want anyone except my friends to see who I’m friends with. Is that possible?


Hiding from timeline?

From Simon on December 16, 2015 :: 7:12 am

Hello, I can’t find an answer to this: I know if I reply to a public post everybody can see it but can I prevent this activity from my timeline? I don’t always want all my friends get a ‘noticifaction’ that I replied to something like “Simon replied to this”.


Differentiation between personal and fanpage privacy

From Lisa @ Fun Money Mom on December 27, 2015 :: 8:26 am

Great post!  I have the same question as Gabriela.  I have both a personal page and a fanpage for my blog.  I’d like my personal page to be set to “friends” and my fanpage to be set to “public”.  I don’t seem to be able to do this.  Do they both have to be set to the same privacy setting?


Privacy for your personal and fan page are completely separate

From Josh Kirschner on December 29, 2015 :: 4:00 pm

Privacy settings for your personal page and fanpage are completely separate, so not clear why you’re having an issue. Just make sure that when you go to your fanpage, you are “using Facebook as [fanpage name]”, not your own name, when you go to the privacy settings. You control this using the little dropdown arrow all the way at the top right of Facebook.


Setting up a business page

From Susan on December 28, 2015 :: 8:44 pm

I need to set up a business page but I do not have a personal page.  It looks like I have to set up a personal page and then add the business page - how do I do that without people seeing my personal page information - because I certainly have no intention of using the personal page and don’t want anyone to be able to access or see it.


Business page won't show your personal page info

From Josh Kirschner on December 29, 2015 :: 4:13 pm

By default, Facebook business pages DO NOT show Page Admins. So no one, other than other page admins, will be able to see who controls the page.


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