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The Complete Guide to Facebook Privacy Settings

by on March 20, 2018
in Facebook, Computers and Software, Computer Safety & Support, Tips & How-Tos, Privacy, Tech 101, Social Networking :: 329 comments

Privacy concerns and privacy controls on Facebook are ever changing. When you post a picture of your kids at a family gathering, which one of your Facebook friends can share it? What private information are those Facebook game apps collecting on you for "third-party uses"? How do you make sure that live video stream is seen only by people you choose? Every action you take on Facebook has privacy and sharing implications that need to be considered before you upload that next selfie.

Fortunately, thanks to vocal demands for transparency from both Facebook users and government regulators around the world, Facebook has been making the process of managing your privacy easier. Below is our step-by-step guide to taking full control of your Facebook privacy settings.

Facebook Privacy

The basic privacy options

If you’re not ready to dive into Facebook’s substantial settings menu, there’s a more user-friendly guide through the more vital privacy settings. Click on the question mark symbol in the top right of any Facebook page when you’re logged in, and select Privacy Check-up, an easy-to-follow walkthrough of your current settings as they pertain to "Posts", "Apps" and "Profile".

(Alternately, for an even quicker speed-tuneup, you can adjust who can see your posts, send you friend requests, or block users by hitting the question mark symbol and selecting Privacy shortcuts.)


Starting with Posts, you can check your default sharing setting. We recommend the Friends setting over the Public one. When set to Public all your posts can be seen by anyone on or off Facebook. Unless you're a celebrity or running a page that is used to generate interest in a business you run, you will likely want to keep your activity restricted to those you have Friended.

The Friend setting has a few tweaks you should be aware of as well. By clicking on the sharing setting button, then the More Options button, you will see the Custom option. Click on that and you will see that you can include all your Friends while excluding the names of certain Facebook friends you don't want to see your updates. It is also important to note that the Friends of anyone tagged in your post or photos will be able to see that post unless you uncheck the option in this window.

If you have joined any Facebook groups or made lists of Facebook friends, you can restrict the posts that way or hide your posts from those groups and lists as well. Want just your college friends to see your late night party pictures? Want to make sure your work friends don't see your selfie at the beach when you called in sick? This is where these restrictions could come in handy both on a per post basis or as an overall option.

Finally, remember that you can change the sharing settings of any individual Facebook update by clicking on the sharing button to the left of the Post button. You can even go back to change settings of previous posts by clicking on the people icon at the top of the post, to the right of the date stamp.

Facebook Privacy: Check Your Status Update Settings


Remember the Candy Crush Facebook game you played too much last year? How about that Instagram Facebook app you forgot you installed? Each app on the site you agreed to install has permission to post to your Friends list unless you told it otherwise at the time you installed it. Can't remember? This part of the tool shows you each app attached to your account and what sharing permissions it has. These settings also control who can see that you have the app installed.

If you don't use the app anymore, just delete it by clicking on the x. While checking my own app list while writing this guide, I found many apps I no longer use that had sharing rights on my account. I deleted all that I'm not actively using and set the sharing permissions of the remaining ones to Only Me.

Facebook Privacy


Here you can see the privacy setting on your email addresses, birthday, hometown, relationship status and other personal details about your life. Under emails it will show the one you registered with when you first signed up for Facebook as well as one Facebook has assigned to you (which you likely will never use). I discovered that I left my Gmail account public, which I hadn't meant to.

For your birthday, the sharing settings are split between the day/month and the year. That way your Friends can wish you happy birthday on Facebook on your special day without necessarily knowing your exact age.

For hometown, this setting only affects what your Friends can see. Advertisers and others may still access this information, especially if you are using the Facebook app which tracks your location automatically.

Finally, if you have set a relationship with another Facebook user, it will be shared unless you set otherwise.

It's important to note that this is only a partial list of the information you're sharing. To see the full list, click the My About Page button, which will take you to your profile page. On there, you can review the various sections—Work and Education, Places You've Lived, Contact and Basic Info, Family and Relationships, Details About You, and Life Events —and make changes hovering over each and clicking the link that appears.

Facebook Privacy

The advanced privacy options

Here you can exert more control of what is being shared with whom. Which is never a bad idea. You've likely gone through this at least once in the past, but it's a great idea to review your settings at least once a year.

To get to the advanced privacy settings, click the drop down arrow in the top right on any Facebook page, click "Settings," and then "Privacy" in the left navigation column. 

Who can see my stuff?

Who can see your future posts? This is the same as the Your Posts section above. 

Review all your posts and things you're tagged in Ever been tagged in an embarrassing photo uploaded by that distant college classmate? You can use the Activity Log page and select the Posts You're Tagged In (in the left column) and the Photos > Photos of You (also in the left column) to check out what you've been tagged in. You can then remove the tag (click the dropdown arrow on the left of the post or photo and then click on the the Remove Tag button at the top of the page) or simply click Hide so they don’t appear on your Timeline.

Review your other activity on Facebook. Hitting “More” after Photos, Likes and Comments reveals other items that may have been automatically posted to your Timeline and your friends’ news feeds, including friends made, events attended, and videos watched (these are embedded video posts that are separate from video apps, and isn’t controlled from the Apps menu above).

Some of these, such as friends made, can only be tweaked to be allowed or hidden on your Timeline. For “videos watched”, you can hover over the padlock to view who can see that you’ve watched it, or choose to delete the post. You can also Clear Video Watch History at the top of the page, and manually update privacy settings by individual posts from music, news and games apps. Click on each section to make sure that the audiences for every category of activity is ok with you.

Limit the audience for your old posts for your Timeline This will revert all your previous posts from "Public" or "Friends of Friends" to just "Friends". But if you've tagged a Friend in one of your posts, their Friends can see that since that is the default setting when tagging someone.

Facebook Live – private, friends or public? For live video stream posts from your smartphone, the default setting for each video stream will be the privacy level you set for regular posts and photos.

You may want to be a little less selective for live-stream video if you’re shooting something news-worthy (or if your plan is to go viral), or more selective when you’re just testing something out.

Either way, fire up the usual status update and select Live Video or the little red person icon. If it’s your first time, you’ll also want to grant Facebook permission to access your camera and microphone. You’ll see your name and profile pic and underneath, the permission level for the video. Tap to edit and select an audience from options of Friends, friends minus a couple no-no’s for reasons of your own, or public to be viewable by anyone on or off Facebook.

If you run a Facebook Page and have professional video software or hardware (more information here) you can also stream from your computer, but as you’re assumed to want to reach your usual audience, there’s no option to tweak post visibility separate to your regular posts.

Who can contact me?

Who can send you friend requests? The default is Everybody, but the only other choice is Friends of Friends.

Who can look me up?

Who can you look you up with the email address you provided? If someone types in the email address you registered with, they can send you a message which will likely land in the Other tab on the Messages page. You can restrict it to Friends of Friends or just Friends (who can message you anyway), if you don't want to be bothered.

Who can look you up using the phone number you provided? Same as the email address.

Do you want other search engines to link to your timeline? Your first impulse may be to turn this off, but Facebook only allows information you've marked as Public to be shown to other search engines. They see it as a way for friends not on Facebook to find you. They do this with your basic information they always make public which is, according to Facebook, "...your name, gender, username and user ID (account number), profile picture, cover photo and networks." Whatever you choose for all three of the above settings, anyone will still be able to find your profile simply by looking up your name in Facebook search.

Facebook Timeline and Tagging Settings

Timeline and tagging options

Now that you've mastered the basics, go down to the next section, Timeline and Tagging. From there, you can control exactly who sees what on your timeline, who can post to your timeline, and who can tag you in photos and posts.

To customize your timeline settings, click on the down arrow in the far upper right corner to reveal a drop-down menu and select Settings.

Who can add things to my timeline?

Who can post on your timeline? It's set by default to Friends and the only other option is to allow only yourself to post on your timeline.

Review posts friends tag you in before they appear on your timeline? If you are concerned about getting tagged in a photo that you don't want all your friends on Facebook to see, this is the setting for you. Once enabled, you'll have to manually approve any photo or posts you are tagged in before they appear on your timeline. Note that this only affects your timeline; those updates will still appear in searches, the news feed and other places unless you un-tag yourself. (Alternately, you can extricate yourself from incriminating posts by clicking on the offending post, then the arrow in the top right to “Remove Tag”.)

Who can see things on my Timeline?

Review what other people see on your Timeline. Click “View As” for the perfect way to check that your mother or boss won't see what you don't want them to.

Who can see posts you've been tagged in on your Timeline? These areas give you a great deal of flexibility, with options ranging from Everyone to Friends of Friends to custom lists. Using this and the below setting in conjunction with manually approving what photos and updates you've been tagged in goes a long way to keep prying eyes away from more sensitive Facebook updates.

Who can see what others post on your timeline? As above, you have flexibility with options ranging from Everyone to Friends of Friends to custom lists. Using this in conjunction with manually approving what photos and updates you've been tagged in goes a long way to keep prying eyes away from more sensitive Facebook updates.

How can I manage tags people add and tagging suggestions?

Review tags people add to your own posts before the tags appear on Facebook? This is an important option if you are concerned about a photo appearing on your profile. This applies only to photo tagging by your Facebook friends. You'll always be notified if someone who's not your friend tags you in a photo.

When you're tagged in a post, who do you want to add to the audience if they aren't already in it? This one sounds more complicated than it is. Often a Facebook friend of yours will make a post and tag you in it. The option here allows all of your Facebook friends to see an update or photo you've been tagged in by someone they aren't friends with themselves (the Friends of Friends function). You can choose to remain tagged but have none of your other Facebook friends see that update, limit who sees that update to certain groups of friends, or you can outright block certain Facebook friends altogether by using the Custom option.

Who sees tag suggestions when photos that look like you are uploaded? Facebook uses face-matching technology to suggest who you should tag in photos. It will only suggest people that are on the user's friends list. If you don't want to show up as an option when your friends are tagging photos, set this to No One.

Facebook Manage Blocking

Manage blocking

If you want to take steps to keep people away from your profile, this is the section for you.

Restricted list

If you don't want to un-friend somebody but also don't want them to see all of your information, you can add them to the Restricted List. This means they can see your public information, but they have no way of knowing you’ve limited their view (unless they happen to see someone browsing your profile who isn't restricted).

Block users

You can also just straight up block somebody. This means this person cannot be your friend. This is an excellent setting if you have stalkers or other people consistently bothering you. Note that this does not stop them from interacting with you in apps, games or groups you're both a part of.

Block messages

Block messages If you’re receiving unwelcome messages and video calls from someone, you can put a stop to that here – and it carries over to the Messenger app too. However, the pest in question will still be able to post to your Timeline unless you block them as a user (above). 

Block app invites

In addition to blocking and restricting people from your profile, you can also block app invitations on a user-by-user basis. So if your Aunt Jackie keeps bombarding you with FarmVille apps, you know what to do.

Block event invites

Tired of your nephew inviting you to his New York City raves every weekend? Typing the name of the Facebook user into this section will stop you from seeing any future event invites from that person.

Block apps

Some apps and Facebook games are great fun at first, but after a while, you want to drop them. You can remove the app or game (see the Apps you use section, below) or block the app, which means it can no longer contact you or get non-public information about you through Facebook. If you are getting emails from the app, you will have to use the unsubscribe link at the bottom of the email.

Block pages

Is that discount fashion site you liked bombarding you with updates from its Facebook Page? Block ‘em here, where you’ll also automatically unlike and unfollow the Page. You can also block other Pages (i.e., public pages for businesses and celebrities) from commenting on or liking your posts.

Customize app privacy

You handled a lot of this with the Privacy Checkup, but in the Settings section there are additional controls for the apps where you’ve logged in with Facebook. 

App settings

Facebook app privacy

Click on each app to view the information that it is collecting from your Facebook profile – your public profile, as well as things like your friends list, date of birth, pages you like, and more. Here you can tweak which of these pieces of data can be collected (except public profile, which is required by all apps). You can also remove the app entirely from the main screen by clicking the ‘X’, however, that doesn’t delete the information the app already has about you.

For future app logins with Facebook, it’s wise to set what info the app can collect – when signing up for the first time, click “Edit This” to choose which data you want to share. 

Apps, websites and Platforms

Facebook Platform and Apps Others Use

Facebook Platform provides third parties access to personal data you share with Facebook. It's how Cambridge Analytica, the company was recently suspended by Facebook while under investigation for election interference, was able to access the data of more than 50 million users in 2014. Facebook Platform also enables third parties you engage with to collect information on your Facebook friends.

Disabling Facebook Platform means you’ll no longer be able to login to websites, mobile games or applications using Facebook or see app requests from friends, but you’ll still be able to use apps and play games on Facebook and elsewhere. If you choose to keep Facebook Platform enabled, you can limit your exposure by selecting the data that apps that your Facebook Friends use can access. 

Facebook app settings

Apps others use

When your Facebook friends use certain apps, those apps access your public information and more. See the full list in the image to the right. There's quite a bit you may not be comfortable sharing without your knowledge. Most of it is enabled by default. Be sure to go through the list and check off what you don't want shared. Note that your public profile info, friend list and gender is not on this list - but these are shared with your friends’ apps (unless you turn off Platform, above). 

Follower Settings

Facebook follower privacy settings

If you’re lucky enough to have people hanging off your every post, you can decide to widen your net of followers here. Friends follow by default, but you can change it to the only other option - let Everyone view your public posts (you can set public-ness each time you post). 


targeted advertising. Here you can see what information is influencing the ads you see, on Facebook and around the web.

Your information

Under About you, you can turn off whether details such as your relationship status, education level or job title can be used to target advertising to you. However, this does not stop Facebook from using this information to categorize your profile for advertisers, or from ads being shown.

Your categories

Want to know who exactly Facebook’s advertisers think you are? Click here to see what descriptors that your activity on Facebook and outside has revealed about you. Most of my fields were related to factual items such as “Gmail Users”, though there were a couple interesting deductions too, such as “Early technology adopters”.

You can delete them all to start afresh, or if you want no interest-based ads on or off Facebook. Just click the X on the right of each item.  

Facebook Ads privacy

Ad Settings

Ads based on myour use of websites and apps Thanks to the Facebook “Like” buttons littered around the internet, and snippets of code that mean non-Like-enabled sites are still reporting movement back to Facebook, nearly anywhere you click online is used to build a profile of you that Facebook can then sell to advertisers so they can show targeted ads to you while you’re browsing Facebook.

If that makes you uncomfortable, you can turn it off here. You’ll still see advertising on Facebook, it just won’t be based on all those steam mops you were looking up.    

Ads on apps and websites off of the Facebook Companies Since Facebook operates its own ad network of sites, it can also target you with ads even when you’re not browsing Facebook – essentially, at any site that uses its ad technology. But the permission is trickily worded – it asks if it can use your Facebook ad preferences, so choose Yes and make sure you review the section below entitled Ad Preferences. Even if you’ve always turned off targeted ads based on browsing (above), Facebook can use information on your profile, such as Likes, to create ad preferences.

Regardless, you’ll most likely still receive targeted ads outside Facebook that are based on your age, gender and location, as well as browsing activity on sites that are part of other ad networks. If you want to stop seeing-based ads in general, you can opt out at the Digital Advertising Alliance - though it notes that the opt-out can only apply to participating companies.

Ads with your social actions

If you like, comment on or share a Page (say, owned by a business or brand), Facebook can broadcast it as an advertisement to all your friends.

This also applies to apps used (for example, Spotify) and events joined (say, if you hit attend for a café’s Veggie Fridays). You can flip the audience for all this between Friends and No One.

And that's Facebook Privacy in a (gigantic) nutshell

That covers your privacy setting options on Facebook. If you want to dig in even further, Facebook has a page explaining the basics of Facebook privacy tools as well as Facebook's latest data policies.

Updated on 6/26/2017

[shocked woman with laptop via Shutterstock, all other images via Facebook]

Discussion loading


Just got tagged and it's not me

From Gary J on August 27, 2018 :: 5:51 pm

I just received a “HIDE” or “SHOW ON TIMELINE” of a photo with someone who has the same name as me. No, I don’t wish to hide, I wish to remove, delete, get rid of, change ... since FB doesn’t share any of this information, perhaps you know?



Just received a confirmation from a friend I didn't request

From Gary J on August 27, 2018 :: 5:53 pm

Also, totally different thing. Got a confirmation of a friend request. Didn’t send a request to that person.



facebook do not allow sharing website links

From Aalejandro P. Hamblin on September 06, 2018 :: 2:59 am

When I share my website link to facebook post. I get this error (“Posts that look like spam according to our Community Guidelines are blocked on Facebook and can’t be edited.”). My website has no content that violates fb community guidelines. My website link is Please help.



Maybe your posts are spam?

From Josh Kirschner on September 06, 2018 :: 10:21 am

It’s not clear on what posts you’re posting your link or which pages of your site you’re linking to. But if you’re just posting your website out there hoping to drive traffic/SEO, then it may be that Facebook is correctly categorizing your posts as spam. It could also be that other Facebook users have been flagging your prior posts as spam and now Facebook is blocking additional posts.



Blocked on FB

From Ilbra Aleihe on September 27, 2018 :: 1:10 am


I am having an issue with FB and no one seems to know how to resolved it. I have exhausted all of my options. Problem is, I cannot see few of my friends and my boyfriends FB file and vise versa. They have not blocked, I am not on restricted list and they are not on mine. I have reported the issue, but got a generic ‘thank you’ message.



Can you clarify the issue?

From Josh Kirschner on September 27, 2018 :: 7:25 pm

When you say you cannot see your boyfriend’s “FB file”, do you mean you can’t see his Facebook profile, you don’t see posts from him or something different?


Are the connected apps linked

From Elise Espinoza on October 08, 2018 :: 10:10 am

Are the connected apps linked to my fb listed in a specific order?


Connected apps in chronological order?

From Elise Espinoza on October 08, 2018 :: 10:12 am

Im trying to figure out when i gave access to a specifuc site. Its the first on ghe list of my connected apps but it i dont think it was the modt recent. How can i know for sure? What order are thry listed in?



Not really

From Josh Kirschner on October 09, 2018 :: 1:37 pm

Looking at my own apps, they aren’t listed in any clear order, it’s certainly not when I installed the app or last used it. So not sure what the algorithm is for sorting, but I wouldn’t read too much into the order the apps are listed.



A tool to check your privacy

From Albert on October 22, 2018 :: 7:49 am

Try Privacy Pub it will tell you which data is public in your profile:



How does a website know who my Facebook friends are?

From Scott on October 28, 2018 :: 10:15 am

So I thought I would check out Touch of Modern after seeing a TV ad. I open a browser, type in the search, go directly to the site and see a window with an option to “log in with Facebook” or an option to enter an email address to access the site. Before I enter anything, there is a line saying “John Smith likes this”, and shows his facebook profile pic, and there is another profile pic next to it of someone else, both of these people are my Facebook friends.  Now I get that they are trying to market by saying, Hey your friends like this. But how do they know who my friends are when I haven’t entered any info on the page, have never visited before, etc. Seems strange, does anybody know how this works? How do they even know who I am?



They're using the Facebook login and widget feature

From Josh Kirschner on October 29, 2018 :: 11:31 am

Touch of Modern is using a login feature that connects directly to Facebook (similar to what we use as an option for our comments). Along with that login, they’re using a Facebook “widget” that shows friends who like a page. If you’re already logged into Facebook in your browser, your friends will show. If you hadn’t logged in to Facebook, nothing would show (you can test this yourself by going to Touch of Modern in incognito mode). Touch of Modern doesn’t have this friend information, that widget is coming directly from Facebook and Touch of Modern is just displaying it. If you go to our homepage, you’ll see a similar Facebook widget.



Photo Tag Help

From T on December 30, 2018 :: 4:34 am

If you tag friends in just one photo of a post with several photos, do their friends see the whole post with all the photos or just the photo they are tagged in?

I ask as even though I have only tagged them in one photo, their name now appears on the overall post heading?


Prevent new friend from seeing old post

From Anne Moutrie on January 10, 2019 :: 12:21 am

I want to add a new friend but I want to prevent that new friend from seeing one existing old post. The only way I can see to do that is to change the audience on the post from Friends to a custom setting of all my existing friends, and then add the new friend. I assume that once added, they wn’t be able to see that one post as they are not on the custom list? But that going forward they would see all other posts that are classed as friends?



Work and education in Facebook

From MD. ATIQUR RAHMAN on January 23, 2019 :: 10:04 am

Hey, people can see nothing in my work and education section although i set those as public in facebook. Please help.




From Vijay Singh on March 01, 2019 :: 8:35 am

Why Facebook block me if i am not doing anything else why is my password frogen



Because you did something

From Josh Kirschner on March 01, 2019 :: 8:12 pm

If you are blocked, it is because either you were doing something that’s against the policies or posting material that is inappropriate/against the policies.



my Fan Page has no Photo/Video Option!

From Lorrie marlow on March 08, 2019 :: 7:22 pm

I want to post as my PERSONAL SELF onto my “Fan” PAGE.  But when I do that, the option to add a Photo/Video disappears.  It only reappears if I post AS MY FAN PAGE ONTO that fan page.  And when I try to SHARE to the FAN PAGE by adding a photo a PRIVACY SETTING message comes up over and over.  I know Mercury is in retrograde.  or IS IT JUST MEEEEEEE?!



He changed everything

From My son on April 05, 2019 :: 4:34 pm

Hi, I have a under aged boy who happens to be computer savy nd unfortunately I’m not! And he has changed his passwords for his email and facebook so that i can’t see anything. . how do i get back into his account without him telling me his passwords. His email is the same but he’s changed the passwords on those too so I can’t get in and see his password saved list, without putting in his password. Can u help?



This needs a parenting solution, not a tech solution

From Josh Kirschner on April 08, 2019 :: 12:06 pm

There’s no way to get into his email or Facebook with having his passwords. However, this should be a condition of him using technology - no password, no phone or computer use. I have the passwords for all of my kids accounts - email, social media, etc. I almost never access them, but they know I could if I wanted to. And if they didn’t share, they would quickly find themselves without access to those apps or devices.



old posts are not showing

From pabitra panda on May 28, 2019 :: 12:03 pm

i have been using facebook since 2011 i have added many photos of my old memoirs but now all photos are not showing , only some photos are showing which has added within 2 months , when i am going to that posting date its showing—
this content is not available right now-
when this happens,its usually because the owner only shared with a small group of people, changed who can see it or its been deleted.

plz help me



Privacy issues

From jb on June 04, 2019 :: 4:35 pm

Why can people Im not friends with still access my profile, even though I have it marked Friends only in privacy settings?



What, exactly, are your marking as private?

From Josh Kirschner on June 05, 2019 :: 3:31 pm

Certain profile information (e..g, your name and photo) are always public - there is no way to mark them as private. What information are people seeing that you thought should be private in your privacy settings?




From Judy Gordes on July 03, 2019 :: 4:56 pm

Some photos on my timeline are blocked.  I can’t even see photos on my profile.  What is wrong?




From Judy Gordes on July 03, 2019 :: 4:59 pm

I am being blocked from seeing some of the photos on my timeline. I also cannot see any of the photos on my profile.



Can you clarify what you mean by blocked?

From Josh Kirschner on July 03, 2019 :: 6:52 pm

Is there a specific error message you’re getting or are you just not seeing any photos? Are you sure the photos are there and weren’t deleted? Can other people see them?




From s bienvenu on July 03, 2019 :: 5:14 pm

If I post an event from my personal page and I want the event to be public, does the public then have access to my page?


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